Most effective way to handle your kid's tantrums

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     " Most effective way to handle your kid's tantrums"

updated September 2021 by Minyk

My son's tantrums always make me feel distressed; he always makes sure he gets what he wants, I am a single mom, and I am working from home. That's where It starts, I think. When I am busy working, he always wants my attention; he begins to distract me like he would do things that will catch my attention,

You will hear noises yelling and crying, saying he wants things, most significantly when outside, like the mall, restaurants, and church. He is such an uncontrollable kid; he moves around often. Still, when he gets bored, Oh, your day will be like hell!! It's hard to handle when you and your kids are outside. It took a while for me to hold his tantrums. I started watching some YouTube content and research about smart parenting and focused on handling kids' tantrums, And It was amazing how effective it is for my son.

So I will share some tips and advice based on my experience handling my son's tantrums. I hope that it will help other moms too.

First, let's talk about Why Tantrums Happen?

1. Hunger, Tiredness, or If they feel Sleepy- This is widespread for children ages 1-4. They always complain when they are hungry, especially when they are exhausted and sleepy,
2. Stress & Fear -Especially when they are playing with other children when a situation occurs where the toys they are playing with are taken away or other kids teased them.
3. When they want something, they cannot have it and always start crying when you say "No" to them when they want something like toys or something that caught their interest. They surely know how to negotiate and start crying to get what they want.
4. Overstimulation & Temperament-Children who can't express their emotions and get upset quickly,
5. Boredom-Kids quickly get bored and start misbehaving.

How to Handle Kids Tantrums,

1. Talk to them nicely and calmly, even if they are yelling and crying. Be patient and use positive words to make them listen. Make them feel that you are concerned and not angry when you're talking to them, hug them, then explain that the way they act is terrible.

2. Act silly Sing and Dance in front of them- If we act giddy like dancing and singing their favorite songs, you can get their attention, and they will try to imitate you. Add a little twist play music to lighten their mood. And make them join you to dance and sing.

3. Play games with them- all children want this; it is like their dream to play with their parents.

Ask them to play with you, make it fun and engaging, try outdoor games too. Much better if you play in a parks or children's playground. Children love playing, so make it an advantage for them to stop misbehaving.

4. Play their Favorite Movie or Shows- Like playing some children loves watching cartoons or some animated movies, tell them to stop so that they can manage their favorite movies or shows,

5. Creative- Be a creative parent, you need to give them chores, activities that they will enjoy doing it and at the end of the day, you also need to provide them with rewards for their hard work. Communicate with them positively, don't yell at them, and be mindful of your words.

Listen to your child and try to have a conversation with them. It is essential always to ask them. How are they feeling, and what do they want and need.

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